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Last week was a uniting week for me and my Family. the previous months were quite challenging for the family due to some huge misunderstanding merged with my immediate elder sister's wedding scheduled for the 25th and 26th of July 2008.

I was on the opposition together with my mum, my elder brother and my younger brother, while my Dad, my step-mother and my other siblings were on the other end. My sister's wedding suddenly stared us in the eye and we unconciously had to bury our differences and unite for the wedding.

Few days before the wedding, i was stark broke and was in Abuja (which is my temporary place of work). the wedding was scheduled to hold in Lagos and i had to be in Lagos on the previous thursday; which was a day to the wedding. I quickly loaned a couple of cash to make the trip with no hopes of paying back.

I arrived Lagos and everything regarding the wedding fell into place; with everyone taking absolute responsibility of their part of the event while burrying their differences.

After the event which was a landmark achievement although with some little hitches arising from the misunderstanding, we all felt a huge need for unity once again and we settled issues amicably.

After the unfolding events, i realised the magnitude of marriage and its accompanied blessings. I had watched my Dad break down like a child when the realization that his once little girl was leaving his house to become one with her husband and i could not but be moved with passion.

My younger ones and my mum also joined in the emotional display. I was not also excluded but i managed to fight back tears. Shortly after the conclusion of the wedding, i was invited by some uncles and aunts for advise as it is traditionally believed that i will be the next to get married since i was the next sibling to my sister.

All these has gradually placed on me a huge challenge and realization that i need to keep working on how to find my bride and work towards the continual unity of the family towards and after my wedding. When that will be, i can't tell. But, i am certain, that getting married heals wounds and brings joy and unity.

while i make my submission, i will like to remind my readers of the biblical injunction that says "he who findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord" . Such favours can sure be beyond your comprehension.
I am on track in finding mine, i suggest you do the same.

In addendum, all interested candidates can forward their application to editorkay@gmail.com, lol!!!!!
chao

August 2, 2008 | 9:09 AM Comments  2 comments

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brosko Oluwakorede Asuni
August 8, 2008 | 2:46 PM
May you find
Wish you fruitful search :)
Glad to know the family is one again!!!!
poettemidayo Adelusi Oluwafemi Temidayo-Don
August 18, 2008 | 6:11 AM
Hmmmmmm
Can i apply too?

...............wishing u good luck
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